I know this isn't any emotional support site, it's a freaking site about Naruto. But honestly I'm feeling so mother ****ing low right now and any kind of support or anything would be nice. Here's the situation: Girlfriend broke up with me (I know, call me a wimp if you want), still friends though and my main fear is that I'll become an insignificant piece of shit and lose my one true friend that made me feel special
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BlazeRelease
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Not a wimp, of course it hurts. But don't feel too bad, If it was meant to be it would have been, remember that. Try not to get too hung up on someone who's not meant for you. Though the parting hurts, it's best for both of you.
CloyEscapade
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That snail is out to get you...
Keep running. Gotta find yourself realize someone else's view of your worth shouldn't matter... Be the best peeps you can be and you'll always find something to keep you going
Keep running. Gotta find yourself realize someone else's view of your worth shouldn't matter... Be the best peeps you can be and you'll always find something to keep you going
Swagdara Uchiha
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Yeah i took it pretty bad when i got Rejected by a chick, so i took it upon myself to focus on my studies and start dating after HS. Meet more mature people.
On topic you'll get over it, these things tend to happen allot. It usually makes you feel better if you eat (Ate a whole pizza because of that) i felt better when i did. It just hurts more if that person was dear to you.
On topic you'll get over it, these things tend to happen allot. It usually makes you feel better if you eat (Ate a whole pizza because of that) i felt better when i did. It just hurts more if that person was dear to you.
Heh, you're from my other thread. Well thanks for the advice
Espadara Uchiha
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Don't feel bad, man. If you keep fearing for the worst to come, than it will. I suggest just taking an easy day one day, just kinda let yourself chill.
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Cheer up, Narubro.
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Eat some food while crying, then play some akon music (to be specific the song "lonely"), jump on to the bed like little ***** and start screaming" why" Lol
At least you were able to date the person you liked. The girl I like is currently unavaible. And the "currently" is optimism.
But as for your situation, you must have that best buddy(a male friend, usually) that will support you and help you while you're going through this. Try talking to him. And as for the girl, well, that's life. You can't just sit and cry in a corner. You gotta stand up, man up, and try to get her back(not by force, romantically, of course). But if that doesn't work, and there's no way you're getting back together... then move on.
It's not easy. You'll still think about her. You'll miss her. Maybe for days, maybe for months, maybe for over an year. But you can't let the pain stop you. Be stronger than it. I know it's hard AF though.
And at least you're still friends. Perhaps you can still talk to her and have fun with her in other ways. I know this is not as nearly the same as having her as your GF, though. But at least it didn't end the worst way possible.
But as for your situation, you must have that best buddy(a male friend, usually) that will support you and help you while you're going through this. Try talking to him. And as for the girl, well, that's life. You can't just sit and cry in a corner. You gotta stand up, man up, and try to get her back(not by force, romantically, of course). But if that doesn't work, and there's no way you're getting back together... then move on.
It's not easy. You'll still think about her. You'll miss her. Maybe for days, maybe for months, maybe for over an year. But you can't let the pain stop you. Be stronger than it. I know it's hard AF though.
And at least you're still friends. Perhaps you can still talk to her and have fun with her in other ways. I know this is not as nearly the same as having her as your GF, though. But at least it didn't end the worst way possible.
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Warning: Really long. Actually it doesn't look that long now. Idk. Oh I guess it might be kind of extreme considering your predicament, but I think it's worth reading. I hope so, anyway...
People are fundamentally the same. At our core, we want to validate our existence, to have and fulfill a certain purpose, and to have our existence acknowledged by others. Loneliness, the feeling that your existence means nothing, that you aren’t ‘necessary’ in anyone else’s life, is the worst pain there is.
Many people who have the basis of their existence shaken will simply give up. They will blame the world for their problems, try to escape from reality, and end up wallowing in their own sorrow and self-hatred.
This is an extremely difficult mindset to overcome, as it will always be easier to blame others and numb your pain by hiding from reality than it will be to acknowledge your shortcomings and face your problems.
It is also something that you have to do on your own. You can’t look to someone else for answers. You have to find value in your own existence, to find out what you want your purpose to be. Otherwise you’ll probably end up hating yourself forever. You shouldn’t expect other people to require your presence if you yourself can’t find a reason to exist.
This is probably pretty depressing to read, and I can say from experience that getting through to a depressed person with just words is nigh impossible. People tend to want to believe that their plight is unique, that no one else could possibly understand their pain.
Though it may seem cruel, pain is an unavoidable part of life, and those who take it in stride are able to move forward and sustain their existence, while the people who let it keep them down end up in a world of denial and regret.
There is more I can say on this topic, particularly about what I discussed in the 3rd/4th paragraph, but idk. It’s difficult to articulate. And I think that I did a good job this time.
TL;DR: Don’t hate yourself. Find value/purpose in/for your existence. I think this is one of my better ones though. Worth reading.
Many people who have the basis of their existence shaken will simply give up. They will blame the world for their problems, try to escape from reality, and end up wallowing in their own sorrow and self-hatred.
This is an extremely difficult mindset to overcome, as it will always be easier to blame others and numb your pain by hiding from reality than it will be to acknowledge your shortcomings and face your problems.
It is also something that you have to do on your own. You can’t look to someone else for answers. You have to find value in your own existence, to find out what you want your purpose to be. Otherwise you’ll probably end up hating yourself forever. You shouldn’t expect other people to require your presence if you yourself can’t find a reason to exist.
This is probably pretty depressing to read, and I can say from experience that getting through to a depressed person with just words is nigh impossible. People tend to want to believe that their plight is unique, that no one else could possibly understand their pain.
Though it may seem cruel, pain is an unavoidable part of life, and those who take it in stride are able to move forward and sustain their existence, while the people who let it keep them down end up in a world of denial and regret.
There is more I can say on this topic, particularly about what I discussed in the 3rd/4th paragraph, but idk. It’s difficult to articulate. And I think that I did a good job this time.
TL;DR: Don’t hate yourself. Find value/purpose in/for your existence. I think this is one of my better ones though. Worth reading.
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