I really really need advice

[einsteinewton]

Leave her alone.U_U

i have tried that but i cant

 

[Kαmi]

how do i go about that???

You got to give her a reason why you are worth sticking with over other guys. That's how the other guy is messing up, the chick doesn't see him worth staying with so she's cheating on him. If you can give a girl a reason why you're "better" for her than other guys, she'll stick around.

Or you could be really good in bed man. If you're better than others in that sense, she probably won't go anywhere for a while Lol

 

[SusanooKyuubi]

You already hit it while her "so-called" man was gone.
Mission Accomplished. Move on. ​

XD This made me laugh for like five f***ing minutes!

 

[einsteinewton]

Well didn't she say she has a boyfriend? If so, you gotta get rid of these feelings. You've already figured it out, it's very possible that she will do the same thing to you. She's cheating on her bf right now so what can guarantee that she won't do the same to you?

If she's going back home over the summer, you should definitely just leave it at *** and no relationship. If she's staying in the same area as you over the summer, see where it goes and see if it's more than just lust. If you guys stay far from one another then you guys are almost doomed to have a failed relationship the same way she is in a failed relationship now.

Yeezus summed it up real nicely though, you kinda sound like a side niqqa Lol

i know it wont work out coz we really stay far from each other but i cant let her go

 

[Sir Blades]

She did it to her current boyfriend, She will do it to you as well.

 

[Stark]

how do i go about that???

I wouldn't even be trying to wife her up since I got her cheating with her boyfriend, what is stopping her from cheating on me? other then this big dìck. But if you want to wife her up you need to make her come out of her comfort zone, make her more comfortable with you and make her want to be around you more then her boyfriend. Get him out the picture first then proceed with the dates, lunches and all that family introduction bull. Kami speaks the truth, read his words and learn.

 

[UCE]

Well didn't she say she has a boyfriend? If so, you gotta get rid of these feelings. You've already figured it out, it's very possible that she will do the same thing to you. She's cheating on her bf right now so what can guarantee that she won't do the same to you?

If she's going back home over the summer, you should definitely just leave it at *** and no relationship. If she's staying in the same area as you over the summer, see where it goes and see if it's more than just lust. If you guys stay far from one another then you guys are almost doomed to have a failed relationship the same way she is in a failed relationship now.

Yeezus summed it up real nicely though, you kinda sound like a side niqqa Lol

Kami :kisss:

i have tried that but i cant

Try harder, or else it will hurt your heart badly

 

[BipolarPolarBears]

I'm sorry.I just have a hard time believing that anyone on this site ever gets laid.

/rekt

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[einsteinewton]

If you think it's cool to do another mans girl. You're not the type of guy I wanna know and don't deserve advice. Her coming on to you or not - so not cool man. You that desperate?

And good grief. Get a grip on your grammar and spelling. Didn't you say you were in college or something? Honestly, what a waste of a thread. Should have kept this to yourself because your reputation on this site will take a sharp plummet seeing as we all know now you aren't a guy to be trusted with anything.

I am a physics and math major student,english is something i don't knw very well and its not like i planned to have *** with her it just happen what am asking is what i should to now

 

[0jordinio0]

hahaha some of us to get laid and alot for that matter

Bullshit. That was probably your first time ever, hence why you're so desperate you asked for advice on Narutobase. 70%, maybe more of the people on this site are virgins.

 

[Genrou]

She's emotionally unavailable.

You already told her your feelings, and she only said she "cares for you".

She's just not that into you. This is a FWB, not someone who's thinking of anything you have in mind which is a relationship.

It's time to start to let go and move on.

I'm sorry, I do hope someday you'll find someone who treats you as a priority and not a replacement or an option.

 

[Kαmi]

i know it wont work out coz we really stay far from each other but i cant let her go

Well you have to. Better to let go now than later cause you're only gonna sink further and further. I haven't been in a similar situation like you but I've had issues letting go in the past. It's one that starts affecting your whole life, whether you want it to or not. Let me say this: If you don't let go, your life will only get worse. Look what Necro said above, he felt like it was a mistake to not let go and managed to hold on for 4 years. It doesn't sound like he enjoyed the end result of the ordeal. You got to try and find another girl cause you're pretty much playing a game of tug of war with this girl and you got hands full of lotion and water. You're bound to lose, it's only a matter of time. It's best to let go now before you get in too deep in the water cause otherwise, you're just gonna drown.

Edit: Like I said before, you can make it work but it sounds like you got more going against you than for you. You need to talk to this girl and get an answer yourself. Be straight up with her and tell her your concerns and see what she says. See how genuine she is when she talks and make your decision from there.

 

[einsteinewton]

Really man if you want something with this girl.. (Who is a cheater)

You need to straight tell her you want to be with her and she best not cheat.
(say the cheating part like your sincerely concerned about getting cheated on)

if me and her give us a chance i will tel her that

 

[0jordinio0]

I am a physics and math major student,english is something i don't knw very well and its not like i planned to have *** with her it just happen what am asking is what i should to now

You ****ing man up and leave her. God, what is wrong with you? You're so clingy - especially with a dirty **** who cheats on men instead of just breaking up with them.

Just because you don't pursue a major in it doesn't mean you should keep the writing skills of an illiterate twit.

 

[Stark]

Keep that girl as a side hoe, get yourself a nice white woman but make sure her cooch don't stink.

You ****ing man up and leave her. God, what is wrong with you? You're so clingy - especially with a dirty **** who cheats on men instead of just breaking up with them.

Just because you don't pursue a major in it doesn't mean you should keep the writing skills of an illiterate twit.

Calm down you getting heated for no reason, although I agree with somethings you're saying.

 

[Its sasukebase]

Kami :kisss:


Try harder, or else it will hurt your heart badly

this^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

 

[RoguePatriot]

Sounds like your just her *** toy, sorry.

 

[Conspirator.]

A good relationship is built from mutual trust, so you should ask yourself: Can YOU trust that chick? That answer to that question alone should tell you what you need to do....

 

[xPHARAOHx]

The best way to get a girl like this is so simple. Ignore her. She'll want you more. Trust me, I've done this before and it works. Whenever a girl like this is messing around with you, your more like a tool to them. The only way to get under her skin, is by turning the tables on her, make her the tool. I know I sound arrogant, but I've been in this situation a few times, and this always work. If you show her too much attention she'll ignore you, but if you don't show you any, she'll be the one chasing after you, wondering why your not giving her the attention she needs.

 

[ObitoRolent]

You ****ing man up and leave her. God, what is wrong with you? You're so clingy - especially with a dirty **** who cheats on men instead of just breaking up with them.

Just because you don't pursue a major in it doesn't mean you should keep the writing skills of an illiterate twit.

You sound like a man of moral. But i'm not so sure if such a person exists in this Cruel World.