That deserves respect? Lee and naruto imo. They started from nothing. They had nothing. Lee couldn't even use ninjutsu, so it would be hard for anyone to believe he would be a skilled shinobi. But he managed to overcome his problem.
Naruto, the manga shows it perfectly.
Also, itachi. Despite the tons of stupid fanboys, itachi deserves respect. He sacrificed everything for the sake of the others. That's a good man.
Minato and kushina, who had to sacrifice theirselves as well, for the sake of the village. So did hiruzen.
And hashirama, who in the final momments, decided to do what was better for everyone else and killed his friend(at least he thought so)
Now, if you speak of love, really love, I can't think of anybody. Though I'd like to make love with ino, hehe.