How do you dwal with rude people

[Unbiased]

That is too extreme, all I would have to do is move close to him and say do you wanna keep your teeth to make him poop his pants why all this crazy stuff?

Well the number one way of getting someone to keep their distance is to give them a reason. Beat the shit out of him and he won't bother you again. I don't mean punch him and walk away either. Make it brutal. Hit him with a chair, slam his head against the stairs or a pole, make it severe. You can't win a war without using overwhelming force same concept.

 

[YowYan]

Staying neutral and acting unoffended is the best attack. Just show him his opinion means as much to you as a wet fart.

 

[narutocentral]

Dont stoop to their level. THey only be rude cuz they feel your above them, so they try to bring you down. Avoid it if possible. Surround yourself with good vibes. Meaning find people that live life in a virtuous way. If you cant just do your best to go along with the punches and fight back by giving a smile and laugh at their insults. And just say " well thanks for that i'll see you later, have a good day".

 

[Kakashi Hatakeo]

Well if you see the dude everyday. I see three options if he bothers you, bother him ruin his day make jokes about how he's short and fat. Other is beat him up, last is get a restraining order.

No this was a while back and it just popped up in my head and started bothering me, I dont see him everyday, I just wanna know what to do for future reference to I'm prepared if you know what I mean but ice idea I'll make fun of him.

Staying neutral and acting unoffended is the best attack. Just show him his opinion means as much to you as a wet fart.

that's what I did except it bothered me sometime later

Well the number one way of getting someone to keep their distance is to give them a reason. Beat the shit out of him and he won't bother you again. I don't mean punch him and walk away either. Make it brutal. Hit him with a chair, slam his head against the stairs or a pole, make it severe. You can't win a war without using overwhelming force same concept.

I like that not the violence side of it but the give them a reason to stay away from you.

I ignore because I really don't give a ****U_U

Yeah guess I got to learn to unlearn my emotions like how I was back in the old days this would not have even been a thought but alas I'm a changed person.

Edit: thanks a lot you guys really helped I usually hate talking about myself and opening up but you guys helped a lot in letting me get it off my chest and in giving some great advice, thank you very much fellow NB members

 

[YowYan]

No this was a while back and it just popped up in my head and started bothering me, I dont see him everyday, I just wanna know what to do for future reference to I'm prepared if you know what I mean but ice idea I'll make fun of him.
that's what I did except it bothered me sometime later

I like that not the violence side of it but the give them a reason to stay away from you.


Yeah guess I got to learn to unlearn my emotions like how I was back in the old days this would not have even been a thought but alas I'm a changed person.

The guy failed at doing what you're currently trying to accomplish. He'd feel better if you would fail too. You let such a pathetic person ruin your mood? lol

 

[deidara71]

Some real advice: why should you care about what anyone says to you? Reacting to anything and everything that happens to you isn't necessary. Honestly, you do not need to show how tough you are whenever someone slaps you with some verbal nonsense. You gotta be able to just scoff it all off and walk away with a "lol I don't give a f***" kind of attitude.

Just do what I do: take an insult, look at it, laugh at it, then forget about it. We're all too awesome to get grazed by some words.

 

[Lana Del Taka]

No this was a while back and it just popped up in my head and started bothering me, I dont see him everyday, I just wanna know what to do for future reference to I'm prepared if you know what I mean but ice idea I'll make fun of him.
that's what I did except it bothered me sometime later

I like that not the violence side of it but the give them a reason to stay away from you.


Yeah guess I got to learn to unlearn my emotions like how I was back in the old days this would not have even been a thought but alas I'm a changed person.

Edit: thanks a lot you guys really helped I usually hate talking about myself and opening up but you guys helped a lot in letting me get it off my chest and in giving some great advice, thank you very much fellow NB members

You handled the situation really well. Like I said just ignore cause fighting the guy or retorting is not gonna help you, it'll only bring you down in life. Just forget about it cause unless they're paying you're bills or putting food on the table then their worthless, a speck of dust. Only time you do something is when they lay your hands on you, then you lay them the **** out

 

[AaaaNinja]

I think what you need to do is try to examine why the words bother you. Absolutely do not invalidate your feelings. When has that ever worked? And don't call yourself "too nice" that's just self-blaming. Patient is probably a better and more empowering term.

I think a much better reply than "That's your opinion," might be, "Okay." Or "I see." Saying those doesn't make it so that you accept or believe what they say. It makes it look like you don't consider what they think to be threatening, even if they say something that might be true. If you don't push back, they have nothing to push against, so it diminishes their power.

 

[Kakashi Hatakeo]

The guy failed at doing what you're currently trying to accomplish. He'd feel better if you would fail too. You let such a pathetic person ruin your mood? lol

I know its stupid but that's not the case any longer, I realise how pathetic he is and next time I see him ill let him know that fact

 

[Kakashi Hatakeo]

Some real advice: why should you care about what anyone says to you? Reacting to anything and everything that happens to you isn't necessary. Honestly, you do not need to show how tough you are whenever someone slaps you with some verbal nonsense. You gotta be able to just scoff it all off and walk away with a "lol I don't give a f***" kind of attitude.

Just do what I do: take an insult, look at it, laugh at it, then forget about it. We're all too awesome to get grazed by some words.

Your right, and I will carry on doing awesome things even some that I have fears of like heights yet I dive into pools from great heights.

You handled the situation really well. Like I said just ignore cause fighting the guy or retorting is not gonna help you, it'll only bring you down in life. Just forget about it cause unless they're paying you're bills or putting food on the table then their worthless, a speck of dust. Only time you do something is when they lay your hands on you, then you lay them the **** out

Your right and thanks for posting again and honestly I can't think of 1 time I started a fight its always in defence and I guess I shall always keep it that way.

I think what you need to do is try to examine why the words bother you. Absolutely do not invalidate your feelings. When has that ever worked? And don't call yourself "too nice" that's just self-blaming. Patient is probably a better and more empowering term.

Good point self analysis always helps though I'm better at analysing others

 

[Lana Del Taka]

Your right, and I will carry on doing awesome things even some that I have fears of like heights yet I dive into pools from great heights.


Your right and thanks for posting again and honestly I can't think of 1 time I started a fight its always in defence and I guess I shall always keep it that way.

Good point self analysis always helps though I'm better at analysing others

Your welcome and yea, just don't let things get to you and you'll be fine

 

[Murasame]

Be the bigger man. The best thing to do is just laugh at the persons face and tell them their not even worth it and walk away. Don't look back though! Just keep swimming, also people only insult others because their jealous (Aka f**k niqqas)

Lol you are just asking to get sucker punched if you do that @bold If you're going to walk away atleast keep your eyes on the person.

 

[Srom777]

I usually continue to be nice to them even when they are rude. I hardly am rude to people anyway.

 

[Wildtangent]

How do you deal with di##heads and generally rude people. When they say something you find unpleasant whether they realise it or not how do you take it. I'm not very good with this kind of thing and I'm a big strong guy but alas words do hurt me . I think I come across to friendly and don't want to say anything bad and try to get along with everyone. I used to be the kind of guy no one would offend but I guess I don't give that image out anymore, some times people fear me for no good reason and other times when they should they don't and I kind of feel about offended as I must come across too nice or something. I'll give you an example, I was talking to this guy and was working a security Job, I'm looking to get into bouncing and like I said I'm a big strong guy and I mention it to this guy who is what I assumed a loser and failure which is true as my assumptions were later confirmed he tried to become one and failed. I say to the guy not any time soon I'm not ready yet and he comes out with it why cause you will get knocked out now I've never been knocked out in my life and anyone I have fought has had nothing but respect/fear and would not do so again.
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have a quite nature and some have tried and failed, this is all in the past though. So anyway he says you will get knocked out and not all guys going to clubs are skinny little guys, now the only fear I have is I might hurt someone and lose my licence but this guy took the piss I felt like grabbing the ****er by the neck and saying you what mate? He is a fat little **** with glasses and it would take me 2 secs to take him out but I said that's your opinion. I need help in how to deal with these people when I feel offended do I not say anything and take the insult, do I insult back or make them shit their pants? I kind of feel anxious and threatened in that kind of situation I don't k ow how to describe it maybe I panick who knows maybe this is me exaggerating but what do I do and what would you do clearly walking away from the situation is not good as it continues to bother me. Also how do I get rid of people I don't wanna talk to some people are so rude and only wanna talk to know information and talk like its an interrogation is it OK for me to say piss off?

Edit: some advice would be nice

Well if it's any relevance some guy that I don't even talk to (sorta knew him in high school) sent me a pic of his member if ya know what I mean after I ignored him for the entire day.... I called the wanker up and told him if he ever called or texted me again I would take him and his little d*** to court. Then I went to the store bought some whiskey and limes and am now drinking whiskey on the rocks with a twist- feel free to join, people suck. As I always say- ages three and up, it's on my box, ages and three and up only all others will get hurt. U_U

 

[Holy Cross]

Thank you this should be obvious to me yet it wasn't thank you, you are right he who gives none deserves no respect and I should not bother with fools.

I know and that right there is the problem I wish I did not have a consciousness

That's right brother preach the way

I don't understand?

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[YowYan]

Well if it's any relevance some guy that I don't even talk to (sorta knew him in high school) sent me a pic of his member if ya know what I mean after I ignored him for the entire day.... I called the wanker up and told him if he ever called or texted me again I would take him and his little d*** to court. Then I went to the store bought some whiskey and limes and am now drinking whiskey on the rocks with a twist- feel free to join, people suck. As I always say- ages three and up, it's on my box, ages and three and up only all others will get hurt. U_U

That's repulsive. As a male feminist, stories like that hit me hard. My gf had the same issue. Pedophiles stalking her, following her to school and sending pics. Oh, if I'd ever had the Death Note...mass murder.